The never ending project
The last house we lived in was what is politely called a “fixer-upper”. Before we could move into it, we had to rip out all the carpet, put in new floors, renovate the kitchen and get all new (or at…
Hopeful in spite of the facts
Hopeful in spite of the facts
The last house we lived in was what is politely called a “fixer-upper”. Before we could move into it, we had to rip out all the carpet, put in new floors, renovate the kitchen and get all new (or at…
My friend Ashley was the minister that performed our wedding, and when we were preparing for the ceremony, she asked lots of good, piercing, questions. But the one I remember best is: “What do you want your home to be…
I am 49 years old. I know, I know, I don’t really believe it myself, but I have checked the sums and they line up. Part of being 49 means realizing that I won’t live forever. Dad’s death last year…
I write because I want to change things. I want to help make the world better. I want us to hear better stories than the ones we were given, and to develop larger imaginations about what is possible. As a…
In October of 2020, my dad died from COVID. Dad was the Emergency Management Director of his county, and so he was constantly on the front lines, getting his rural community what they needed to get through this pandemic. Back…
As a gardener, I love plants. All sorts, really, but especially pass along plants – plants given you by a friend or a neighbor, plants that have traveled a ways and that have stories behind them. I now live in…
When we were looking for houses to buy, we had a hard time explaining to the Realtor what we wanted. It wasn’t as simple as “We need a three bedroom with two baths in a good neighborhood.” No, our descriptions…
A friend who is between jobs told me the other day that she had really curtailed her discretionary spending. “Well, except for the pajamas.” “The pajamas?” “They are adorable”, she said. My (11year old) daughter and I got matching pajamas,…
I went tree shopping today. We live on half an acre, in a former suburb. The house was outside the city limits when my neighborhood was built, but it would be annexed just five years later while the Korean War…
I went for a walk this morning. That isn’t unusual – I walk about two and a third miles most mornings, rain or shine, and have done for more than a year. What made it notable this morning was that…